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Child Brides: Action Is Being Taken At Last

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A child is a child, is a child! Children should be loved, cherished, protected and educated.

Yet, last month, another Child Bride in Yemen bled to death on her wedding night. The 13-year-old’s uterus was torn during intercourse with her 30-year-old husband.

Local rights group Save the Children said the tragedy underscored the need for the state to issue a legal age limit for marriage and to begin a national awareness campaign. The husband rejected all liability, blaming the tragedy on his late wife’s “poor health and refusal to be considerate to his needs.”

Save the Children activists warned against Yemen’s new trend of marrying off daughters too early, saying “abject poverty and a lack of education” were to blame.

Support Yemen, a non-profit independent campaign to establish a democratic civic state in Yemen where “the constitution gives people freedom, equality and social justice to every citizen,” is also fighting to preserve the childhood of little girls.The group composed of young female and male activists, journalists, videographers, photographers, web designer and bloggers have released a video (above) asking:

“How much innocence of little girls’ childhood must fade away? How many mothers must die due to inadequate healthcare? How much illiteracy must develop before education becomes free and mandatory? How many victims must suffer before a law criminalizing domestic violence is issued? How many revolutions do women need participate in so that they find place in the government and parliament?

“Women’s rights are part of human rights… I will fight for my rights and break the silence…”

While there are great efforts to tackle the issue of “child marriage,” it is still a common practice in many countries worldwide.

A recent article in Dubai’s Gulf News notes the UAE is at the forefront in tackling this issue and the minimum age for marriage has been set at 18. Permission to marry at a younger age is needed from a judge who must seek approval from the Ruler’s Court.

The minimum age in the UAE is higher than in Kuwait and Bahrain, which is set at 16. Yemen in 1999 eliminated the age limit altogether. Attempts by MPs to re-instate it in 2009, coupled with protests on the streets and campaigns by Yemeni Nobel Peace Prize winner Tawakkul Karman, have not succeeded.

Application of this policy in the UAE led to a significant decrease in early marriages. Gulf News says the percentage of young women married between 15 and 19 years of age dropped from 57 percent in 1975 to an astonishing eight percent in 1995.

On “child marriage,” UNICEF says: “The right to free and full consent to a marriage is recognized in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights (1948) with the recognition that consent cannot be ‘free and full’ when one of the parties involved is not sufficiently mature to make an informed decision about a life partner.Child marriage is a worldwide problem but is most prevalent in Africa and Southern Asia. Although its practice has decreased somewhat in recent decades, it remains common in rural and some other areas and among the most poverty stricken, according to the map released by UNICEF.

The Convention on the Elimination of all Forms of Discrimination Against Women (1979) states that the betrothal and marriage of a child shall have no legal effect and all necessary action, including legislation, shall be taken to specify a minimum age of marriage. The Committee on the Elimination of Discrimination against Women recommends this age to be 18.”

Child marriage is a violation of human rights, whether it happens to a girl or a boy, but it represents perhaps the most prevalent form of sexual abuse and exploitation of girls. The harmful consequences include separation from family and friends, lack of freedom to interact with peers and participate in community activities, and reduced education opportunities. Child marriage can also result in bonded labor or enslavement, commercial sexual exploitation and violence against the victims.

UNICEF facts and figures 

Because they cannot abstain from sex or insist on condom use, Child Brides are often exposed to such serious health risks as premature pregnancy, sexually transmitted infections and, increasingly, HIV/AIDS.

  1. Globally, 36 per cent of women aged 20-24 were married or in union before they reached 18 years of age. (This figure does not include China. Unless otherwise indicated, figures are from United Nations Children’s Fund, The State of the World’s Children 2006, UNICEF, New York, 2005, p. 131.)
  2. An estimated 14 million adolescents between 15 and 19 give birth each year. Girls in this age group are twice as likely to die during pregnancy or childbirth as women in their twenties. (United Nations Population Fund, State of World Population 2005: The Promise of Equality: Gender Equity, Reproductive Health and the Millennium Development Goals, UNFPA, New York, 2005, p. 50.)
  3. Marriage of young girls is most common in sub-Saharan Africa and South Asia. In Niger, 77 percent of 20- to 24-year-old women were married before the age of 18. In Bangladesh, this rate was 65 percent.

UNICEF says the role of government and civil-society institutions is to develop and implement systems to prevent or discourage this practice. Because child marriage is closely associated with poverty, government commitment to poverty reduction is likely to lead to a decrease in child marriages.

Governments also need to establish 18 as the legal age of marriage for girls, as well as boys, and ensure the rule is upheld. Addressing attitudes and customs that promote or condone the practice is vital to changing the acceptable age for marriage.

Education

As always, education is the magic world. Expanding children’s knowledge and empowerment is crucial, particularly for girls. Educated girls are less likely to agree to marry at a young age. Attempts to close gender gaps in education can include the establishment of child-friendly schools, cash incentives for parents and the expansion of non-formal education.

One way UNICEF is addressing the issue of child marriage is through the promotion of girls’ education. Research shows that higher levels of education for girls prevent child marriage. (United Nations Children’s Fund, Early Marriage: A harmful traditional practice: A statistical exploration, UNICEF, New York, 2005, pp. 12-13.) UNICEF is the lead agency for the UN Girls’ Education Initiative, which works to ensure that by 2015, all children everywhere will be able to complete primary schooling.

Consequences

FORWARD, the Foundation for Women’s Health, Research and Development — an African Diaspora women’s campaign and UK-registered support charity established in 1983 — says there are numerous detrimental consequences associated with child marriage, with physical, developmental, psychological and social implications.

FORWARD notes Child Brides are likely to become pregnant at an early age and there is a strong correlation between the age of a mother and maternal mortality. Girls aged 10-14 are five times more likely to die in pregnancy or childbirth than women aged 20-24. Girls aged 15-19 are twice as likely to die. Young mothers face higher risks during pregnancies including complications such as heavy bleeding, fistula, infection, anemia and eclampsia which contribute to higher mortality rates of both mother and child. At a young age a girl has not developed fully and her body may strain under the effort of childbirth, which can result in obstructed labor and obstetric fistula. Obstetric fistula can also be caused by the early sexual relations associated with child marriage, which take place sometimes even before menarche.

There is also a clear link between Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) and child and early marriages. Communities that practice FGM are also more likely to practice child marriages. In some FGM-practicing communities, FGM is carried out at puberty and then marriages are arranged immediately afterwards. It is also common in FGM-practicing communities for a man to refuse to marry a girl or woman who has not undergone FGM, or to demand that FGM is carried out before marriage.

According to a 2008 study by the Gender Development Research and Studies Center in Sanaa, just over half of the girls are married before their 18th birthday — some as young as eight. Admittedly, the problem is not unique to Yemen. In April 2012, Saudi Arabia’s Grand Mufti Sheikh Abdulaziz al-Sheikh suggested girls can be married by age 10-12.

As with all change, child marriages may take generations and decades to eliminate completely. It is certainly through education, awareness and enlightened government. Each Child Bride death is one too many…

11 Responses to Child Brides: Action Is Being Taken At Last

  1. Ticia Verveer (@ticiaverveer) 07/09/2012 at 4:27 PM

    Child Brides: Action Is Being Taken At Last http://t.co/GRnAfiaz Girls can get married as young as aged 9 in Yemen

  2. Ibn Kathir 22/06/2012 at 1:10 AM

    Grade ‘D’ propaganda as transparent as mucus.

  3. Isobel Sturgeon 20/06/2012 at 2:55 AM

    @Marijke: your logic is faulty on many levels. You assume that people in the “west” think that sexual activity is ok for girls aged 13, pregnant at 15, and a single mother. People in the west think that is not OK and want to stop that. Furthermore, it would be hard to find a person in the west that thought it would be ok for a 13 year old boy to have sex either. Attaining 18 is also not necessarily proof of adulthood. But it is much harder to stop an 18 year old from marrying than it is to stop a 13 year old. A 13 year old is physically still immature. Scientific study has shown that the male brain is immature and incapable of logical reasoning over risk taking until age 25. So in your criticism of the writer, you are yourself guilty of bias against another culture.

  4. Marijke 17/06/2012 at 4:50 PM

    There are a lot of things in your article from which I see you are writing from a western perspective: A western perspective of what women’s rights are, what is acceptable regarding when someone is an adult or child, and what is acceptable with regards to marriage.

    First of all, Islamically a boy or girl becomes an adult upon attaining puberty. He/she becomes responsible for his/her actions, and is physically ready to reproduce and therefore ready for marriage.

    Now one of the main things in an Islamic marriage, is the consent of the bride. Regardless of the age, if the bride does not consent or isn’t asked, the marriage is not valid.

    Second, you talk about women’s rights to be in government positions and taking part in revolutions. Islamically, women are not taking part in government. Doesn’t mean we don’t have anything to say or to advise.

    Aisha (ra), wife of Prophet Mohamad (pbuh) was consulted by male Islamic leaders because of her knowledge of Islamic jurisprudence.

    The most influential and strongest leaders in Islam were raised by their mothers alone. The greatest Imams were proud to announce they were also educated by women.

    We are the building blocks of an Islamic society and don’t need to have a high position in the eyes of people since our Creator already holds the greatest regard as mothers, wives and believers.

    I agree that there needs to be more emphasis on education for women because they educate the next generation. But being married doesn’t need to stop anyone from getting an education.

    I also agree that lack of proper health care doesn’t contribute to women’s welfare, but again that is not limited to women under 18.

    You write, child marriage is a violation of human rights. First of all, it is out of your ignorance (sorry for the word) that you assume adults are 18 or over. It is one day decided somewhere and then expected to be considered the same everywhere.

    As I mentioned, in Islam it’s not that way.

    Second, who has decided what human rights are? Another organization somewhere in the west, and everyone again is expected to have the same ideas.

    Islam protects the rights of every individual, man, woman, child,adult, rich, poor etc. And most of all, men and women are respected and appreciated for how they were created, so equality between men and women in the western way does not apply here. If in any Muslim country, a group is not getting their rights fulfilled it means Islam isn’t practiced as it should be. And this would mainly be due to cultural reasons.

    This is why a country like the UAE, the age for marriage is set.

    What I am trying to explain is, don’t approach problems in Muslim countries with a western mindset. It doesn’t work. These poor girls who have been sent off to marry men who are obviously not good husbands, sent off by their parents who are equally responsible for their daughters suffering and death. Their daughter hasn’t been taken into consideration, it was most likely a business transaction. But if a young girl in let’s say UK, Holland or any other western country, can be sexually active at 13, have a baby at 15 and be a single mom, why can’t a girls the same age be married to a suitable man who will respect her and provide for her, and raise a family together? (By her consent and in the way Islam prescribes it to be done…)

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